Apparently it's ok for me to spend my life being criticized but as soon as I say anything that can be perceived as negative about your precious little failure, I get shit listed.

I can't stand the hypocrisy of anything that defines life at home. If I were her, it would be publicly known that I had failed and I would be getting pushed to find a job, not protected and told that no matter what I do, it'll be ok and all that. If I was barely going to graduate from high school, had been kicked out of the programs I was in and had a less than 10% chance of actually going to college, my parents would do nothing but belittle me and lecture me about how I had royally fucked up. However, they do nothing but enable my sister to fail, fail, fail at life. Congrats on failing! Don't expect me to not show disappointment though.